brother in law definition

Brother-in-law – this refers to the husband or wife’s brother, or simply put, the person who marries your sister. This word describes the familial bond that develops due to marriage, not through kinship. This person might play a crucial role within the family and be considered as one of the close family members in some societies.

Part of speech:
compound noun
Phonetic transcription (IPA):
/ˈbrʌð.ɚ.ɪn.lɑː/
CEFR level:
B1
Word frequency:

Pronunciation Guide for “Brother-in-law” in English

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Say the first part strongly: BRUH-thuh. Pay attention to the final law sound in UK English, /lɔː/, and don’t put a long pause at each hyphen.

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Word Combinations: “Brother-in-law” Collocations

brother in law in a sentence

Family-related utterances usually come out best when used alongside common adjectives and common social action verbs. Such combinations make for a more conversational, natural, and culturally appropriate style of speech when speaking English.

Phrase

Example 

my brother-in-law 

  My brother-in-law is a doctor.

her older brother-in-law 

  Her older brother-in-law lives in Leeds.

future brother-in-law 

  I’m meeting my future brother-in-law tonight.

ex-brother-in-law 

  He still talks to his ex-brother-in-law.

get along with your brother-in-law 

  Do you get along with your brother-in-law?

invite ones brother-in-law 

  We invited my brother-in-law to dinner.

Common Mistakes to Avoid with “Brother-in-law”

The term “brother-in-law” creates many misunderstandings since it does not obey grammatical rules that apply to ordinary nouns. Students often have problems forming plurals, possessives, and referring to family relations. This section will give you insight into typical errors and show you how to use this term correctly.

Mistake 1: Incorrect Plural Form 

Correct  Wrong 
  brothers-in-law
  brother-in-laws
  My brothers-in-law are visiting tonight.
  My brother-in-laws are visiting tonight.
  Both of her brothers-in-law work in finance.
  Both of her brother-in-laws work in finance.
  We invited our brothers-in-law to the wedding.
  We invited our brothers-in-laws to the wedding.
  Their brothers-in-law live abroad.
  Their brother-in-laws live abroad.
  All my brothers-in-law get along very well.
  All my brother-in-laws get along very well.

Mistake 2: Using the Wrong Possessive Form 

Correct  Wrong
  my brother-in-law’s (…)
  my brother-in-laws car (…)
  I borrowed my brother-in-law’s jacket yesterday.
  I borrowed my brother-in-laws jacket yesterday.
  Her brother-in-law’s advice was very helpful.
  Her brother-in-laws advice was very helpful.
  We stayed at my brother-in-law’s house during the trip.
  We stayed at my brother-in-laws house during the trip.
  My brother-in-law’s dog is very friendly.
  My brother-in-laws dog is very friendly.
  They admired their brother-in-law’s new apartment.
  They admired their brother-in-laws new apartment.

Mistake 3: Confusing Family Relationships 

Correct Wrong
  He is my brother-in-law, not my cousin.
  He is my cousin-in-law.
  My sister’s husband is my brother-in-law.
  My sister’s husband is my cousin-in-law.
  Sarah’s brother-in-law helped us move house.
  Sarah’s family brother helped us move house.
  Her brother-in-law works at the same company as she does.
  Her marriage brother works at the same company as she does.
  I met my brother-in-law for dinner last weekend.
  I met my law brother for dinner last weekend.
  Their brother-in-law joined the family vacation.
  Their in-law brother joined the family vacation.
Useful tip: 

In compound family nouns like “brother-in-law,” the main noun changes form, not the entire phrase. That’s why we say “brothers-in-law” instead of “brother-in-laws.” 

Natural Words Used Around “Brother-in-law” 

The phrase “brother-in-law” is just a noun (a family relationship term), and English does not normally create related adjectives or verbs from it. Use natural adjectives and verbs around it. 

Word or phrase 

Type 

Example 

kind 

adjective 

  My brother-in-law is very kind.

friendly 

adjective 

  Her brother-in-law is friendly.

annoying 

adjective 

  His brother-in-law can be annoying.

supportive 

adjective 

  I have a supportive brother-in-law.

meet 

verb 

  I met my brother-in-law at the wedding.

visit 

verb 

  We visited my brother-in-law last weekend.

Translating “Brother-in-law” into Other Languages

Discover how this family-related noun is spelt and pronounced in languages like German, French and Spanish. Listen and repeat.

Language Word for “Brother-in-law”
Flag Spanish Spanish   Cuñado
Flag French French   Beau-frère
Flag German German   Schwager